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THE EN-LIGHTEN-ING MEMBERSHIP
The membership for soul-driven overachievers who are ready to shift their emotional frequency.
Does any of this sound familiar?
You can't let someone buy you coffee without planning how to return the favor.
You silently judge yourself for the dirty dishes sitting in the sink ... while you scroll.
You've got too many people depending on you to leave a house that's draining the life out of you.
This is not the way you were born. They're all patterns.
Maybe you already know the pattern you keep circling around.
Knowing it isn’t gonna make it budge an inch.
You can be best frenemies with the pattern you keep repeating in your career, your relationships, your health…
and still have no control over how it runs the show.
Your Brain Knows.
Your nervous system didn't get the memo.
Do any of these ring a bell?
You go into full-body freeze at the drop of a text, even though you know there's no way he can ever hurt you again.
5-year-old you knew that bad people go to hell. Adult you doesn't believe a whit of that now, but your body still holds this horrible tension every time you think you've done something "bad".
Your body jerks involuntarily when you go into meditation. It wants you to understand something, to tell you something. And you don't know what it is.
You can choose to behave as if your pattern doesn’t affect how you show up in the world.
You can show up for your coaching clients, teach your yoga classes, do tarot readings for your friends as if you don’t have this frenemy pattern standing on the sidelines.
But no matter how much you deliberately change your intentions, thoughts, and actions, the emotions of that pattern will still be in charge of you at the most inopportune moments.
Because behavior does not shift emotional frequency.
Knowing your frenemy and releasing the reason why you’re still going out into the world together like BFFs?
Not the same thing.
In the Lighten-ing Membership, we focus on the release.
The True Cost of
Stuckness
You’ve spent years working on this. So much talk therapy. EMDR. Vagal nerve toning exercises. Tapping scripts. Coaching and Human Design and Enneagrams and on and on and on.
You’ve stayed in jobs and friendships for years beyond when you knew it was time to leave. You went numb to survive the marriage you’ve finally extricated yourself from, but your body is still paying the bill for those years of not feeling. Therapists, friends, colleagues keep telling you that you just need to make a decision already, but you’re frozen because you’re afraid to make the wrong choice.
These patterns? They are costing you more than you realize.
Friendships, because of your hypervigilance and its BFF, overeactivity.
Your health -- hello chronic shoulder pain.
Income: Your side business never turns into the full-time job you want it to be.
Heartbreak, when you see your kids shrinking instead of standing up for themselves, just like you do.
We’re about to flip the table on that
frenemy pattern.
For my ride-or-die members who show up Every. Single. Session, showing up has paid off in spectacular results:
New careers.
New family.
A marriage proposal (AND moving into a dream home).
But let's not discount the "little" wins -- because small shifts can actually be HUGE:
Mindset shifts: Realizing that the unexpected is not necessarily bad.
Physical shifts: More breathing room around the chest.
Language shifts: Naming something that seemed big ... but, once it's got words to describe it, doesn't seem so scary or intangible
What members say about their transformations:
When I work
My Magic
The session is a sacred space, not just a Zoom call.
Every call opens with a channeled meditation that goes exactly where you need it to, even when "where you need it" turns out to be a sacred temple on another dimension led by a faceless elephant god. (True story!)
Other times, it's a nervous system stabilizing practice that leaves you actually regulated instead of performing calm.
You don't know what you're walking into. That's the point. Your system gets met where it is, not where a pre-planned meditation assumes it should be.
Your exact words become your medicine.
Your precise language - “the wooden box with metal latch on the lid,” not "this trauma" - is what helps your body locate the pattern and let it go.
You don't have to remember a thing ... and still you're controlling the whole show.
The body leads. Our analytical minds step aside.
You talk. Whatever comes out, comes out. You don't have to make it coherent or land it well or worry that you're wasting the session on the "wrong" thing. The thing you think is wrong is almost always THE thing.
I'm not analyzing you while you speak. I'm feeling it. If you float up into your head and start explaining your life instead of being in it, I'll notice before you do, and I've got ways to bring you back.
When we tap, I'm scanning what you actually said, not what I think you meant. I'm not sequencing it or smoothing it or making it sound like a tidy little insight--'cause this isn't therapy! Half of what I read back will sound like nonsense laid next to other nonsense. That's when you'll feel something shift.
What members say about my magic:
Human Design and tarot show up live, informing our process.
You arrive and I already know things. Your Human Design chart is ready, some tarot cards might have shown up, and the arc of the transition you're walking into is sitting there on my table before you say a word ... before I even know which one of you will take the hotseat.
No intake small talk. No explaining yourself from scratch. The session is already calibrated to your specific Design, which means we skip the generic advice you've already tried and go straight to what actually works for someone built like you. The cards tell me when you've gotten where you're headed.
And you get to stop wondering if you're doing this right.
There are no passive witnesses on our group calls.
The group container does the energetic work even when you're not the one tapping. Participating as an observer tapper stirs up powerful stuff you didn't realize needed to be stirred.
This is a live, cameras-on* experience.
There are no replays in this membership. There are a lot of reasons behind that policy, but the one that matters most for you is this:
This work can go deep fast. It can take you somewhere you did not plan to go. When you are here live, you are held. The container holds you. The group holds you. I can see you, I can step in, I can walk you back out. A recording cannot do any of that for you, and I am not willing to send you into the field that my energy creates without a net.
That is also why cameras stay on. If you are in the hotseat, I need to see you so I can track what is actually happening in your body and your field, not just the words coming out of your mouth. If you are tapping along as an observer, I need to see you too, because someone else's story can absolutely surface something in you that is ready to come up. When that happens, you are not on your own with it. We will see if you need help, and I will be there.
You get to go deep here because the structure is built to catch you.
Doors close
SunDay, May 31, 2026, 11pm Eastern
The En-Lighten-ing Membership
The En-Lighten-ing Membership
$64.75 / month
billed annually
($777 / year)
or $77 / month billed monthly
Three sessions a month, live on Zoom**
... so that life getting in the way doesn't mean you miss the whole month.
Each session opens with a channeled grounding meditation and sacred container
… so that your nervous system knows it's safe to let something move before we ask it to.
One member takes the hot seat for a full round of Intuitive EFT
… so that the work is always grounded in an actual human being's stickiness.
The rest of the group taps along
… so that the person in the hot seat isn't the only one who leaves feeling lighter.
Divine Timing
Who gets the hotseat is decided by random lottery at the start of each call
... so that the Universe can decide who's up (from anyone who throws their hat in the ring).
There are no replays
... so that what gets said in the room stays in the room and everyone can go as deep as they need to – with all the safety checks I’ve put in place.
Members also get access to discount private 1:1 sessions with me ($100 off my standard rate of $279).
... so that when a frenemy surfaces that needs its own dedicated space, you've already paid it forward to go deeper.
** Our schedule (usually, outside holidays and vacations)
1st Sunday @ 3pm Eastern
3rd Sunday @ 6pm Eastern
Last Tuesday @ 6pm Eastern
When you join, you’ll register for these zooms in 3 easy steps and add them all to your calendar with the click of a link.
Alignment Check
Is This Your Container?
This Is For You If:
you’ve already got a good deal of intuitive self-awareness
you’re ready and even eager to tackle the hard stuff
you’re open to the possibility that the right container and community is what has been missing from your transformation
This Is NOT For You If:
you can’t make it regularly to the live sessions
you aren’t comfortable having your camera on in a zoom
you can’t make uninterrupted alone time for the live sessions (you'll need full focus in a safe space where you won’t filter what’s coming out of your mouth)
Picture This
Frequency replaces force
Your actions stop coming from the place of “should” (you feel you "should" call your kids every week) and start coming from the place of emotional frequency (you feel joy when you talk to your son for the first time this month and he tells you about the first date he had last week)
Your relationship with your parents gets clearer
You accept that, as painful as it is, your mother is truly incapable of seeing you as you are, and that she doesn’t want to, and so you stop imagining she is someone she is not.
Money shows up to the uplevel you now value yourself at
You stop undercharging for your services … or giving them away for free. Your friends who have plenty of money now pay you to do the work you used to do just to help them out.
The dirty dishes on the counter stop feeling like a moral failure
You realize the real-life scale of what your emotions have been blowing way out of proportion. You see things that are big deals as the big deals they deserve to be seen as. And the smaller stuff? When they feel big, you observe them as manifestations of emotions that want to be processed.
Meet Dr. Marie
Gasper-Hulvat
I spent my first four decades in my head, frequently dissociated from my body. Bryn Mawr PhD, tenured Art History professor, over a dozen peer-reviewed publications. Then a nervous system in crisis cracked me open to my intuitive gifts.
I'm Dr. Marie Gasper-Hulvat: Happiness Mentor, Chaos Recovery Supporter, and Sur-Thriv-Or Mom. I've led this membership for over two years, and between that and my training practicum, I've led over 100 hours of sessions using my method. That doesn't count the dozens of hours I've done this work on myself.
My own magical tapping partner guided me to uncover a childhood trauma that then took months of EMDR therapy to confirm to my doubting mind. My body showed me, in retraumatizing terms, that it actually happened. My EMDR therapist eventually "fired" me, telling me "Whatever you're doing, it's working better than this." She wasn't wrong. My EFT tapping method definitely WORKS.
I'm an empath, which means I don't just hear your story: I feel the emotional frequency of your voice in my own body, and I know when something has genuinely moved because it moves through me too. The meditations that open each session aren't planned. They arrive, channeled, and they're always exactly what the room needs. As a certified Quantum Human Design Specialist, I know how to ask you questions attuned to your Design. My Reiki Master training helps me set an impenetrable sacred container. And I'm an EFT practitioner certified in the Quantum Alignment System who has never once used a canned script, because your exact words are the key to unlocking your blocks.
These aren't separate skills I bring to the table. The tarot cards I pull, the crystals, the essential oils my Reiki-attuned hands feel called to as I set the stage: They're how you intuitively know it's safe to go exactly where your unique brand of stuck lives, and then I guide you to releasing it.
WHY NO REPLAYS?
The
Live Group Container
Matters More Than You Think
1. The live group container keeps us all safe.
I’ve heard enough people tell me, “I tried EFT once and it took me to a very dark place. I’ll never do it again.” I know what my powers are capable of. I know that they can take you to the edge of a cliff you've been afraid to look over forever.
When we’re live together, I will have you securely locked in with ropes and a harness. This space of safety and support is on-demand, adjusting every time the wind shifts or a rock turns funny under your step. And that simply does not extend to a replay. You would be watching alone, without my having triple-checked your carabiners or being present to prepare for the storm cloud on the horizon.
No responsible rock-climbing guide would send you down a cliff face without having tested all the ropes and anchors first themselves, then triple checked all your gear. That’s why you hire a guide: So that you can just focus on climbing. I'm the same. I do not take your safety for granted, ever.
For my method, safety requires everyone being present, cameras on, so I can watch your process (even if you’re an observer tapping along). And I’ve always got my full arsenal of emergency rescue tools at the ready if you ever need help getting back to solid ground or out of a dark place.
2. The energetic field gets expanded exponentially.
When we tap all together, it creates a powerful energetic field that everyone is impacted by. It amplifies the energetic field in ways that can rarely be achieved as powerfully in 1:1 sessions. It’s the difference between hearing a soloist and a full choir singing.
3. More spiritual power = faster, easier, more life-transformative shifts.
More people means more lineages. More ancestral energy. Everyone brings their own Guides, ancestors, guardian angels, elevated masters, and supernatural forces from planes beyond our own. The container scales with the group. Every added member expands what becomes possible.
4. Generational patterns transcend individual bodies.
When you tap on something, and we unearth ancestral or social trauma patterns, hearing someone else wrestling with the exact same wounds you're sharing can be so much more effective than wrestling with them solo.
5. You never know what you’re showing up for, but you always leave with something you needed.
It can be really difficult to see what we actually need at any one moment... and even more difficult to ask for it. I have seen so many times that the person whom the Universe picks for the hotseat has a story that someone else in the room needed to hear and be guided through via a proxy.
6. Being witnessed is its own medicine.
"Thanks, everyone, for witnessing me," said one of our members spontaneously at session close recently. Not "thanks for listening." Witnessing. Being witnessed relieving yourself of the weight you’ve been carrying is like having 12 hands reaching in and gently lifting it off your shoulders. We’re all releasing it together with you. In the group, you have so many witnesses. The group container holds YOU more.
What members say about the group container:
I'm HERE TO HELP
Details & Logistics
Everything you need to know about joining the container, showing up, and how I handle the practical magic. If you have a question that isn't answered here, please reach out.
What happens when I join? How do I get access?
When you join, you’ll get access to a course in my membership portal where you’ll find an introduction video, the links to register for all our zoom sessions, a form where you can sign up for discounted 1:1 sessions, and more.
What if I miss a session?
It’s not at all a problem. A lot of our members don’t make it to every session. They’ll make it to one or two a month; a few members only pop in every few months as they need it or feel called. When you trust and place the intention that you’ll make it to all the sessions you need to be present for, you will.
What if I’m late for a session?
Join in anyway! The number of times we’ve had someone join part way through, and it was exactly what everyone needed? I’ve basically come to expect that whatever needs to happen will happen without my trying to control it.
One session, we had a member who took 20 minutes struggling with uncooperative tech before she could get it. The moment she joined? We had just finished a shockingly quick set of tapping sequences with another member. The other member felt complete. And in the back of my mind, I’m wondering, hmm, what are we going to do for the rest of the session? I didn’t need to worry. At that exact moment, the tech-frustrated member’s name popped up on the screen, and we tapped on exactly what she needed to work on that session.
How long do the sessions last?
Usually about 60 minutes. I set aside 75 minutes just in case. Sometimes we have time at the end for observers to share their experiences and observations. Sometimes we don’t.
Can I cancel?
Absolutely. There is a form to complete in the membership portal to cancel your membership. Please allow 3-4 business days for a cancellation to process. If your membership renews during this window, we will refund the charge.
What’s your refund policy?
For the annual plan, you can cancel within 30 days of your first charge, no questions asked.
For the monthly plan, refunds are not available, but you can cancel at any time.
What if the Universe never picks me for the hotseat?
One, you’ll get a lot out of tapping along with whoever is in the hotseat, and you’ll probably surprise yourself with how effective this is.
But also, with your $100 off 1:1 tapping sessions with me, you’ve got options to work on whatever needs to get worked on - and if the Universe never pops you into the hotseat, it may be because there are energetics that want to orchestrate a more private container for your transformation. That’s the reason I offer the discount on the 1:1 sessions.
Interrupt the Pattern. Start Feeling like YOU.
Are you ready to shift your emotional frequency?
Doors close
SunDay, May 31, 2026, 11pm Eastern